day nine

Sorry for the lack of posts, life got a little hectic. So picking up where I left off....Things have not progressed with Joel, he went on a little vacation to Hawaii and I did not hear from him for like a week. Although I will say that when he came back he did start texting me again but he has yet to want to hang out or go on a date. I'm not really sure what I should do in this event but I am going to still follow it just to see what will happen. In other news, I went out last Saturday night with Hershey, we had a blast. I met a bartender at charlie's he was to say the least beautiful. He was single as I found out thanks to Hersh, but just my luck he informed me that he was giving up on guys for awhile. Ended that route real quick, to make things worst I was drunk and apparently posted an ad on craigslist under missed connections, trying to connect with him. Why is it that when we go out to bars the best looking guys who we seem to have connections with are always taken or giving up. I find myself constantly either trying to date a guy who is one of the above or I find myself being hit on by guys who either are to say the least not attractive or looking for a quick fling. Am I destined to be stuck with those as my choices?